For Detransitioners | Sex Change Regret https://sexchangeregret.com For those who want to return back Thu, 15 Jun 2023 10:43:53 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://sexchangeregret.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/cropped-SCR_LOGO-512-for-favicon-32x32.png For Detransitioners | Sex Change Regret https://sexchangeregret.com 32 32 Soren’s Story: How One Detransitioner Found Peace Outside of Medicalization https://sexchangeregret.com/sorens-story-how-one-detransitioner-found-peace-outside-of-medicalization/ Thu, 15 Jun 2023 10:40:19 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2277 By Kelsey Bolar, May 18, 2023

Soren began identifying as transgender at 11 years old. She started hormone replacement therapy at 17, and by 19, underwent surgery to remove her healthy breasts.

Now 21, Soren looks back on her medical transition with regret. Her traumatic medical complications opened her eyes to the ills of “gender-affirming care,” which she said enabled her to believe hormones and surgery could provide her with the sense of self she craved growing up. Detransitioned and now working to heal her complex emotions through mindfulness, Soren has become a vocal advocate against the “enabling” she sees happening within the gender medical industry.

Read the full article at Independent Women’s Forum

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Explore your ACEs with a therapist https://sexchangeregret.com/explore-your-aces-with-a-therapist/ Sun, 14 May 2023 16:49:53 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2260 Walt Heyer advises on what questions to ask a therapist before considering hormones or therapy.

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Genspect https://sexchangeregret.com/genspect/ Thu, 16 Mar 2023 20:07:52 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2185 A fantastic resource

Here’s a description of who they are from their website:

“Genspect is an international alliance of professionals, trans people, detransitioners, parent groups and others who seek high-quality care for gender-related distress.

Emerging as a leading organisation that offers an alternative to WPATH , Genspect offers a range of education, resources and support for anyone who has been impacted by gender dysphoria.

Uniting 25 different organisations in 23 countries, we don’t just speak for a few: we speak for thousands.”

Go to Genspect.org.

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Chloe Cole Testimony https://sexchangeregret.com/chloe-cole-testimony/ Thu, 03 Nov 2022 11:43:29 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2076

A teenager from California who was born female but identified as male before changing course and returning to her biological gender is speaking out about her experience — and her heartbreaking story.

Chloe Cole testified in September, 2022, in California. She’s only 18 years old and says she didn’t know the word detransition until it happened to her.

Watch the video on Twitter.

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Young British man who had gender reassignment surgery is suing NHS in historic legal action https://sexchangeregret.com/young-british-man-who-had-gender-reassignment-surgery-is-suing-nhs-in-historic-legal-action/ Fri, 29 Jul 2022 19:35:22 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2002
Excerpt:
  • The unnamed man has said doctors did not warn him about the drastic outcome of gender reassignment surgery which has left him infertile and incontinent 
  • On Twitter, the man said that he had been effectively ‘castrated’ by the surgery 
By SUE REID FOR THE DAILY MAIL A young British man who had his genitals removed during gender reassignment surgery is suing the NHS over the operation in a historic legal action. He complains that doctors did not warn him of the drastic outcome of the body-altering surgery which has left him infertile, incontinent and feeling like a ‘sexual eunuch’. He said on Twitter yesterday: ‘The minute I woke up from surgery, I knew I had made the biggest mistake of my life.’
  This man’s transparency is remarkable and it’s a hard story to read: trouble urinating, no sex drive, no help from the doctors after the surgery. This terrible experience is consistent with the people who write Walt for help, saying they wish they had never gone through the surgery. Read the entire article at The Daily Mail.
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Libby Littlewood (Former Transgender) UK Tells Her Story https://sexchangeregret.com/libby-littlewood-former-transgender-uk-tells-her-story/ Thu, 14 Jul 2022 23:36:34 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=1995

The heart-wrenching story of English girl, Libby Littlewood, who witnessed the divorce of her parents followed by the tragic loss of her mother, and subsequently was homeless.

Growing up, Libby didn’t feel represented in society, and dealt with great insecurity over the idea of being a woman. Libby “transitioned” into “male” by taking hormones and cross-dressing.

Yet, a faith that lived on from her childhood was mightily revived in her late teens, causing a radical shift in her life, leading to de-transitioning!

Click to watch her interview on X-Out-Loud.

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Detransition Awareness Day https://sexchangeregret.com/detransition-awareness-day/ Tue, 01 Mar 2022 12:29:59 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=1885

We are detransitioners, supporters, and concerned parents. We’re here to cheer for each other.

Our unique health care needs are ignored by the same professionals that were eager to medicalize us. We are not going to hide in the shadows. We deserve ethical medical treatment.

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3 Myths From Trans Folklorists That Allow Men Like Lia Thomas To Hurt Themselves And Others https://sexchangeregret.com/3-myths-from-trans-folklorists-that-allow-men-like-lia-thomas-to-hurt-themselves-and-others/ Sun, 27 Feb 2022 17:34:34 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=1878

Changing genders is a myth and trans folklorists who promote it are harming people, especially children vulnerable to believing fairy tales can come true.

By: Walt Heyer, February 03, 2022
The Federalist

Reprinted from https://thefederalist.com/2022/02/03/3-myths-from-trans-folklorists-that-allow-men-like-lia-thomas-to-hurt-themselves-and-others/

University of Pennsylvania transgender swimmer Lia Thomas, a man, has smashed records and shocked sensibilities. Thomas’s performance illustrates the effects and absurdity of denying differences between the sexes, especially men’s obvious bodily advantages in sports.

Thomas presumably fulfilled the NCAA’s policy requiring trans athletes to suppress testosterone levels for a designated time before competing on the woman’s team. In January, the NCAA tweaked the rules to place sport-specific limits on testosterone levels. The policy still falls short by ignoring the unchanging enhanced muscle strength and endurance amassed during male puberty.

Caitlyn Jenner (formerly Bruce), an elite Olympian athlete, weighed in on the Thomas controversy, saying him competing as a woman isn’t fair to women athletes. Jenner says his physical advantages are still apparent many years after transition.

“In Lia Thomas’s case, I don’t care about her testosterone levels now for the last year or two,” Jenner said. “Honestly, I care about her testosterone levels for the first 16, 17 years of her life. That’s what we are fighting against here.”

As a man who formerly identified as a woman, I now clearly see — with the benefit of 30 years of hindsight and reflection — a similar flaw in my thinking that led me astray. Like the people setting NCAA policies, I neglected to consider that it was categorically impossible to biologically change my internal male morphology: my skeletal structure, body mass, muscle strength, and myriad other sexually determined attributes.

This flawed and foolish thinking results in real-life consequences. Changing sexes is a myth and trans folklorists who promote it are harming people, especially children vulnerable to believing fairy tales can come true. Here are some of these trans myths at play in the Thomas story.

Myth 1: Sex and Gender Are Separate and Assigned

The entire folklore of transgenderism rests on the artificial construct that gender is separate from biological sex, and that sex doesn’t matter, gender identity does. It’s a house of cards built on the flimsiest of foundations, a feeling. Feelings can, and do, change.

Who we are cannot be separated from our bodily reality. We live our lives in our bodies. Our identities are rooted in our bodies. The whole body is organized around either being male or female, a sexual binary. Who we are is not based on a feeling but rooted in physical reality.

Sex does not come from an ideological vending machine filled with multiple choices. Starting at conception, sex is absolute, innate, and immutable: male or female.

During intercourse, approximately 250 million sperm cells start the journey from the testes of the man to the fallopian tube of the woman, where one lucky sperm cell joins the egg in the hours or days following sexual intercourse. The sperm and the egg each contain mitochondria and DNA. When the sperm fertilizes the egg, the nuclei from each fuse together, and a baby is conceived. The baby’s sex revealed in the DNA is fixed for life.

Now we’re told sex is “assigned at birth.” This phrase popped up out of nowhere and now has infiltrated everywhere. No one has ever had his or her sex assigned at birth. It’s fixed nine months before birth, at conception.

The truth since the dawn of time is that a look at the baby’s genitalia reveals his or her sex. With today’s ultrasound technology, parents can know the sex of the baby during pregnancy. Sex is innate and unchangeable, not assigned by a doctor after the baby exits the womb.

The deceitful language creates the foundation for an even bigger lie: Because sex is “assigned” at birth, it can be “reassigned” later.

Myth 2: Hormones and Surgery Can Change Men into Women and Women into Men

Transitioning is a myth. It’s not possible. Sex is unchangeable. That is not a transphobic smear; it’s biological fact.

No amount of female hormones forced into a man’s bloodstream can transition him biologically into a woman, or vice versa. Sure, each can identify as the other if they want, but they do not magically become the other sex. Thomas did not magically change bodies, replacing male with female, by suppressing testosterone and ingesting estrogen.

The same goes for surgery. Surgeons may use their operating prowess to fashion a convincing replica of a man or a woman, but their efforts are feckless to change anyone’s biological sex. I have thought for years that lawyers should be having a field day jumping all over the medical fraud that has been perpetrated by surgeons who claim they have changed a person’s sex. That’s an outlandish lie of biblical proportions.

Trans folklore requires us to ignore the ample, obvious evidence of physiological and structural differences between males and females, suppress any intellectual rational discussion, and swallow whole the lie that cross-sex hormones and surgery can flip sex. Reality goes out the window and we enter a world of Orwellian dystopia, where language gets distorted and free speech is dumped in the trash. Skeptics are bullied. Good people are canceled, and careers are ended by the slightest infraction in speech or thought.

Lawmakers, medical societies, and school boards disregard these biological facts and therefore make nonsense policies. Opportunistic males cloaked in cross-sex identities are permitted to invade women’s spaces and sports, threatening women’s safety and undoing the level playing field women have fought so hard to attain.

The truth is: God makes male and female; surgeons and hormone dispensaries don’t.

Myth 3: And They Lived Happily Ever After…

The media paint a rosy picture of a transgender person’s life after the so-called “change of gender.” Life will be rainbows and lollipops, they convey; everyone lives happily ever after. The trope they disseminate implies no one has ever regretted it. This myth leads gender-distressed individuals to think, “Why not go for it? What do I have to lose?”

The truth is, they have a lot to lose. I’ve heard countless heartbreaking stories from people who lost years of their lives trying to erase who they are in a futile attempt to become someone they can never be. People need to hear the truth. Regret is not rare. My book, “Trans Life Survivors,” features the experiences of 30 such survivors, told in their own words. I could have included hundreds, perhaps thousands.

Regret can hit months, years, or decades after surgery. The survivors come to realize that a surgically fabricated and hormonally induced persona didn’t cure what ailed them, and they want help to go back to living in authentic biological reality.

Gender discomfort exists, but like any pain, its purpose is to alert you of something wrong.
It used to be that a counselor’s job was to methodically pinpoint the probable cause and work through it. That’s no longer the case. People who want to reclaim their lives tell me therapists diagnosed them with gender dysphoria after one or two visits, then encouraged them to transition socially, take cross-sex hormones, and undergo surgery. Parents report similar sessions with their children’s therapists. The therapist considers nothing else.

Yet gender distress is a symptom of other difficulties: adverse childhood experiences, or psychiatric or psychological issues such as panic disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, major depression, bipolar disorder, eating disorders, dissociative disorders, and substance abuse. None of these benefit from cross-sex hormones and surgery.

For me, the desire to escape my male existence was the result of years of cross-dressing at the hands of my grandmother starting at age four, after which I was molested by my uncle. Deep psychological pain caused me to want to be female.

My transgenderism was a hiding place until I received proper psychotherapy, then set my sights on God. Slowly but steadily, God’s love healed the pain of childhood experiences and redeemed my life, and the desire went away. I no longer needed a hiding place.

Today, due to the successful efforts of transgender folklorists, successful talk therapy like I received is against the law in 20 states and the District of Columbia. Affirmation is the only treatment allowed for patients who utter the magic phrase “gender distress.”

It especially crushes my heart to see children and teens ensnared in this ideology. The American College of Pediatricians, one of the few medical associations not given over to woke indoctrination, has spoken to the experimental nature of transgender intervention for children and the many ways it impairs their mental and physical health.

Panicked parents contact me. One mother succeeded through loving intervention to divert her 10-year-old daughter from going down the transgender path. Other parents want to reach their older teenagers who are blind to the difficulties awaiting them with hormones and surgery. I hear from those teens after transition, in their later teens or early 20s when reality has dashed their dreams of living happily ever after.

Women bemoan their permanently lowered voices and scarred chests. Men mourn the loss of potency and prospects for future romance. From my experience and the testimonies of the thousands who have written me, I know these myths harm innocent people and that the path to freedom starts with acknowledging the truth.

No therapist, no doctor, and no surgeon has been effective in biologically changing anyone’s sex, full stop. Sex is not assigned at birth and cannot be reassigned later. Regret is real. Harm is done, no matter what trans folklorists claim.

Therein lies the hope for people who want to go back: you never really changed.

Reprinted from https://thefederalist.com/2022/02/03/3-myths-from-trans-folklorists-that-allow-men-like-lia-thomas-to-hurt-themselves-and-others/

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Stop treating gender dysphoria differently — apply trauma therapies to all dysphoria https://sexchangeregret.com/stop-treating-gender-dysphoria-differently-apply-trauma-therapies-to-all-dysphoria/ Wed, 23 Feb 2022 20:59:11 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=1863 Therapists Treat Dysphoria As A Trauma Symptom, Until It’s About Sex

We must stop treating gender dysphoria differently and instead apply trauma therapies to people with any type of dysphoria.

By: Walt Heyer February 17, 2022

Reprinted from https://thefederalist.com/2022/02/17/therapists-treat-dysphoria-as-a-trauma-symptom-until-its-about-sex/

New Zealand passed a law on Tuesday banning talk therapy, often painted as “conversion therapy,” for patients who suffer from dysphoria about their biological sex. The law specifically targets therapy aimed at children, and threatens a hefty prison sentence for those found in violation.

The move follows Monday’s announcement of regulations banning gender-related talk therapy in Israel, which threaten to take away the medical licenses of therapists who buck the ban. Canada also outlawed such counseling effective last month, not only codifying jail time for talk therapists who try to help gender-confused people, but also threatening the freedom of churches and pastors to speak the Bible’s teachings about sexuality.

Talk therapy is standard industry practice for patients with general dysphoria, so why is it being treated as something barbaric when it’s used to help patients confused about their sex?

Dysphoria and ‘Gender Dysphoria’

Things started going off the rails with the introduction of a diagnosis known as “gender dysphoria” in 2013. “Dysphoria” as a free-standing clinical term has existed for a long time. Dysphoria means a profound sense of unease or dissatisfaction: the opposite of euphoria. Dysphoria is not a mental health diagnosis on its own; it’s a symptom of something deeper and much broader than gender dysphoria.

Dysphoria, “a state of generalized unhappiness, restlessness, dissatisfaction, or frustration,” is a symptom associated with a variety of mental conditions, such as stress, anxiety, depression, and substance use disorders. To treat patients experiencing dysphoria, caring therapists and psychiatrists dig deeper for the underlying cause and create an appropriate plan to alleviate it. That’s the hallmark of effective psychological treatment.

But in 2013, the American Psychiatric Association changed all that and declared that if dysphoria is related to gender identity, then look no further, skip psychological evaluation, and proceed directly to taking cross-sex hormones and removing healthy body parts. Their fact sheet advises: “People whose gender at birth is contrary to the one they identify with will be diagnosed with gender dysphoria.”

The stated goal in using the term “gender dysphoria” was to reduce stigma of mental illness for the patients (no longer “disordered”), yet still provide a diagnosis code to satisfy the insurance companies. Consequently, in medical settings today, as soon as a patient mentions gender, most pediatricians, psychiatrists, and psychologists immediately diagnose the person with gender dysphoria and put the individual on a direct path to cross-sex hormones and mutilating surgery.

Gone are the days of counseling to explore why the person has feelings of distress. Patients who voluntarily seek counseling for negative childhood experiences discover it is almost impossible to find a psychologist who’s willing to help.

What Happened?

Thousands of people who have had feelings of hurt and confusion exploited by the transgender industry and seek restoration, as I did, write to me for help. The first questions I always ask are, “When did you (or your child) first feel (or express) gender discomfort?” “What was happening in your life up to that time?” and “Why do you want to destroy who you are?”

Many people who contact me for help either don’t remember anything happening or minimize it. We exchange a few emails where I gently ask those simple questions and the results are amazing. One hundred percent of the people have been able to pinpoint exactly what happened to trigger the urge to escape into an alternate gender identity. Their childhood events run the gamut of abuse, abandonment, and neglect.

Something always happened.

Adverse Childhood Experiences Happened

Researchers have coined a term for this: “Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs).” Psychology Today says ACE “refers to a range of negative situations a child may face or witness while growing up.” These experiences include emotional, physical, or sexual abuse; emotional or physical neglect; parental separation or divorce; living in a household in which domestic violence occurs; or living in a household with an alcoholic, substance abuser, or mentally ill person.

ACEs are quite common. Almost two-thirds of the 17,000 people who filled out a confidential survey in the 1990s had experienced one or more ACEs. That startling statistic prompted scientists to begin studying the negative effects on physical, mental, and emotional health.

Adverse childhood experiences should be taken seriously because they can interfere with the normal maturation of a child’s brain and alter the brain at a deep level where the most basic needs originate and a person’s identity is formed. The CDC notes, “Toxic stress from ACEs can change brain development and affect how the body responds to stress. ACEs are linked to chronic health problems, mental illness, and substance misuse in adulthood.”

When a boy says he identifies as a girl because “I have a female brain,” perhaps it’s not because he has a female brain but that his brain development has been affected by adverse childhood experiences. This is very common among those with gender dysphoria.

Among ACEs, child sexual abuse is particularly heinous and traumatic. Most of the people who write me were sexually abused, as I was. But child sexual abuse includes more than physical touch. Noncontact assaults such as exposing children to pornography, like school districts where books with sexually explicit language are added to classroom libraries, are child sexual abuse as well and have widespread effects on innocent children.

The World Health Organization defines child sexual abuse as: “The involvement of a child in sexual activity that he or she does not fully comprehend, is unable to give informed consent to, or for which the child is not developmentally prepared and cannot give consent, or that violate the laws or social taboos of society.”

Thousands of people have written to me and can pinpoint when they first wanted to escape into an alternate identity. The timing often coincides with the ACE. For example, boys who were sexually abused may have an impulse to rid themselves of their genitalia that commenced with the abuse.

This is where the diagnosis of “gender dysphoria” does its harm and keeps people from effective care. Connecting the dots from ACE to gender distress is an elementary exercise for those willing to see. The link is obvious, except to gender specialists.

An entire population of suffering people is being led to slaughter. They are coping the best they can with feelings they can’t understand. They seek help from trained “gender professionals” whose sole purpose is to diagnose gender dysphoria and catapult them into the only permitted course of treatment: cross-sex hormones and surgeries.

Meanwhile, outside the world of gender, ACE psychologists are studying resilience and trauma and suggesting blueprints for healing that rework troubling memories and emotions from the past. They recommend seeking professional mental health care, known as talk therapy, along the way.

Surgery and hormones are never mentioned. That’s because hormones and surgery don’t help; they hurt by heaping on post-traumatic stress disorder.

Real People Suffer From Reckless Diagnosis

One of the people who have contacted me is Richard Anumene, a man in his mid-twenties called Adrian in a recent article. He reached out to me only five months after his 2021 gender “surgery,” distraught to the point of considering suicide.

While under the care of psychiatrists and psychologists for schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and relentless PTSD, Richard was diagnosed with gender dysphoria and immediately prescribed cross-sex hormones and feminizing surgeries.

Richard says, “Why did they do this to me? I did not have gender dysphoria.” He still has the mental disorders, but with the added horror of a mutilated body. He sees clearly now that his dysphoria was much broader than gender: it was a symptom of his many mental illnesses. The “gender affirming” surgeries were totally unnecessary.

My story from 1983 is similar. I had suffered years of psychological distress and sought out the advice of top experts in the novel field of gender identity: a surgeon and a gender therapist. They assured me that realigning my male body to confirm my female feelings would heal my broken psyche. It didn’t. My extreme distress continued in my surgically altered body, to the point of considering suicide. Now recovered and restored to male, I offer hope to other sex-change regretters like Richard who want to find their way back.

Road to Healing

Imagine how much tragedy could be avoided if gender therapists treated people for adverse childhood experiences to begin with.

The road to healing from ACEs begins with the powerful step of identifying and accepting what happened. My true healing began as I acknowledged the emotional, physical, and sexual abuses I endured as a young child. Then, as I worked through the powerful emotions with a licensed therapist, my desire to identify as a woman dissipated and disappeared altogether.

In the case of gender, however, trans advocates falsely paint talk therapy as “barbaric” and misname it “conversion therapy.” They successfully lobby state legislatures and whole countries to ban any therapy that doesn’t affirm the alternate identity.

In true bully fashion, they smear people who support therapeutic intervention as “transphobic” and threaten to revoke medical licenses. But truly, the only “conversion therapy” in play is the gender specialists’ barbaric regimen of applying hormonal and surgical measures to “convert” people into alternate gender identities.

The evidence is clear: ACEs can “disrupt a child’s development and impact their physical, social, emotional, and cognitive well-being well into adulthood.” Therapists and clients must have the freedom to look beyond gender distress for underlying issues.

Parents should steer clear of gender clinics, enlist the services of a licensed trauma therapist, and insist on ACE treatment protocols for their children. Trauma therapists should intervene and influence the mental health profession to stop treating gender dysphoria differently and apply trauma therapies to people with any type of dysphoria.

Richard and I, along with the thousands of others who write me, should not be diagnosed with gender dysphoria. The false diagnosis almost hijacked our recoveries permanently. Richard is bringing legal action against the clinic that should have known better. The gender therapists ignored our histories, irreparably harmed our bodies, and must be held accountable.

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Stunning Letter From a “Detransitioned” Woman Demanding The Medical Establishment Treat Gender Dysphoria With Science, Not Activism https://sexchangeregret.com/stunning-letter-from-a-detransitioned-woman-demanding-the-medical-establishment-treat-gender-dysphoria-with-science-not-activism/ Thu, 06 Jan 2022 14:15:40 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=1831

Sinéad Watson is a healthcare advocate for youth experiencing gender dysphoria and an advisor for the Gender Dysphoria Alliance. She describes herself on the site as “detrans” and “detransitioned” and someone who desires to work toward “balanced, evidence-based care for gender questioning youth.”

Watson’s thread is an open letter that she penned to Stanford aimed at one of the premier medical doctors in the field of child and adolescent psychiatry, Dr. Jack Turban, a chief fellow at Stanford University School of Medicine and is well known for his research on transgender youth.

Full transcript from her Twitter post:

I am writing to you on behalf of a group of detransitioned women regarding your fellow Dr Jack Turban. We are deeply concerned with Dr Turban’s disparagement of psychiatric intervention and exploratory psychotherapy, his singular endorsement of affirmative therapies for people with gender dysphoria, and his dismissive and derogatory treatment of those of us who detransitioned due to transition regret.

We are but a few of many that have been the victims of this type of cavalier attitude. We all suffered from gender dysphoria at one point (and some still do), and were led to believe that our best chance of treating our dysphoria was to medically transition. As it turned out, this was not the case. As a result, we now have to live with bodies and voices that have been irreversibly changed (in some cases damaged) by hormones and surgeries, when what we needed was a compassionate and thoughtful exploration of our gender distress through talk therapy. Some of us will now never be able to have children and many of us live with great distress and regret every day.

Not only did physicians like Dr Turban fail us by sending us down a singular path of transition, they are now letting us down once again by disparaging our experiences and even our existence, when they should be providing us with support to help us heal from our unnecessary medical transitions. The fact that Dr Turban is a psychiatrist at Stanford and uses his credentials to promote his reckless approach is especially troubling, as he has been granted a large and influential media platform. As we see more and more distressed young people following in our footsteps of a rushed medical gender transition, in a few years, we fear that the consequences of Dr Turban’s activism will be catastrophic and visible to all.

Dr Turban does not hide his disregard for the role of psychotherapy in treating gender distress, and his singular belief in medical and surgical approaches to treating gender dysphoria, whatever its cause may be. Appearing on the GenderGP Podcast episode ‘Exploring Detransition with Dr Jack Turban’ (2021), hosted by Dr Helen Webberley, a UK physician criminally-convicted for running an illegal clinic, Dr Turban says:

“There’s no psychiatric intervention for gender dysphoria. There are medical interventions for gender dysphoria, if you will. And it’s not the rule like right, how the psychiatrist’s going to treat gender dysphoria, they’re not like they’re not going to make that go away. The only way that it’s ever been proposed that psychiatry can do that was through conversion therapy, which obviously doesn’t work:”

As you will read later in this letter, many detransitioners report that they strongly wish they had received exploratory psychotherapy rather than affirmation, thus Dr Turban’s insinuation that this would be tantamount to conversion therapy is highly disturbing. Dr Turban describes detransition, in the GenderGP podcast, as having “become this really awful word. I feel like 90% of the time when you read it, it’s really being weaponized.” The claim that discussing detransition is problematic due to the topic being “weaponized” has been used to shame, bully and silence detransitioners who try to tell our stories. This bullying of a vulnerable group is unacceptable, and we find it incredibly worrying that Dr Turban would participate in the accusation that detransition is “being weaponized,” furthering the bullying of detransitioned individuals.

This is not only a matter of rhetoric. Dr Turban goes on to say, in the podcast,

“When you say detransition people usually think that means like transition regret. It brings up this idea that somebody transitioned, then realize like, oh my god, that was a huge mistake. I’m actually cisgender, I regret every domain of gender affirmation I’ve ever had. And as I’m sure you know, that’s not the reality of the situation.”

Dr Turban is, again, completely dismissing those of us who have experienced transition regret. As detransitioned woman, we are deeply hurt that Dr Turban would find it appropriate to suggest that our pain and distress is not a reality. We do, in fact, regret every domain of gender affirmation we ever had and the irreversible changes that medical transition did to us that we must now live with for the rest of our lives. It is, therefore, highly unprofessional and deeply offensive to see comments like this from a fellow at Stanford.

At the same time as Dr Turban dismisses our existence, he also claims to represent us in research, but his bias is clear: the goal is to minimize detransition because it contradicts Dr. Turban’s professional aspirations to promote transgender medical and surgical interventions. In the GenderGP podcast he also says

“We have a paper that hopefully is coming out soon, where we took the data from the 2015 US Transgender Survey. So this was a survey of over 27,000 transgender adults in the United States. And we found that of those who had transitioned in some way, don’t quote me on that exact number, but it’s something like 13% of them said that at some point in their life they had detransitioned. And when we looked at why they did that the vast majority of them like close to 90% I think had detransitioned due to some external factor.”

We bring to your attention that the 2015 USTS survey that Dr Turban repeatedly uses for his research is an online convenience survey that was promoted by transition advocacy sites. We believe in and support transgender rights and trans people, but respectfully submit that this survey, subtitled “Injustice at Every Turn” which is full of biased questions that promote a political agenda, serves as a poor base for respectable research. Dr Turban previously attempted to use this survey to claim that psychotherapy leads to suicide; his problematic analysis and conclusions were thoroughly outlined in a rebuttal by Roberto D’Angelo et al. in ‘One Size Does Not Fit All: In Support of Psychotherapy for Gender Dysphoria’ (2020) to which Dr.Turban never replied, even through he had the chance to do so. Instead, Dr Turban attacked the researchers on Twitter. Dr Turban also used the same survey to attempt to show that puberty blockers saved lives. Another rebuttal showed just how flawed that piece of research was. See ‘Puberty Blockers and Suicidality in Adolescents Suffering from Gender Dysphoria’ (2020) by Michael Biggs.

Dr Turban failed to respond to that critique in the scientific area, but did go on media circuit to promote his deeply flawed conclusions. Most recently, Dr Turban misused this problematic sample to discredit detransition experiences in his research, ‘Factors Leading to “Detransition” Among Transgender and Gender Diverse People in the United States: A Mixed-Methods Analysis’ (2021). Dr. Turban did not seem at all troubled by the fact that 100% of the respondents were transgender-identified and did not identify as detransitioners. This is an expert from his study:

“These [detransition due to internal factors] experiences did not necessarily reflect regret regarding past gender affirmation, and were presumably temporary, as all of these respondents subsequently identified as TGD, an eligibility requirement for study participation.”

Dr. Turban’s conclusions were that detransition is largely a temporary phenomenon, happens in response to external pressures, and does not really represent a problem for those who detransitioned. These conclusions are highly flawed and ignore those of us who have detransitioned due to transition regret, and who were excluded from the survey for no longer being transgender-identified. In comparison, recent detransition research conducted within the actual detransition community – (‘Detransition-Related Needs and Support: A Cross-Sectional Online Survey’ (2021) by Elie Vandenbussche) found very different results: that most of us detransition due to the internal realization that transition was not what we needed, that transition did not help and- can actually make things worse for us, and that we found other non-invasive ways to alleviate our dysphoria. Further, the research showed that detransitioners expressed the need to find alternative treatments to deal with their gender dysphoria, but reported that it was nearly impossible to talk about it within LGBT+ spaces and in the medical sphere. Vandenbussche found that most detransitioners currently are in dire need of psychological support on matters such as gender dysphoria, co-morbid conditions, feelings of regret, social/physical changes and internalized homophobic or sexist prejudices. The research confirmed that detransitionres experience prejudice when working with medical and mental health systems, which Dr. Turban’s vocal activism directly emboldens and reinforces.

We feel it important to add that in May 2021, the Karolinska Hospital in Sweden issued a new policy statement regarding the treatment of gender-dysphoric minors. This policy has ended the practice of prescribing puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones to gender-dysphoric patients under the age of 18. Finland also revised its treatment guidelines in June 2020, prioritizing psychological interventions and support over medical interventions. Major changes are also underway in the UK as the NHS has convened a Cass Review to examine the practice of transition for young people and the evidence that underlies it. Thus, it seems evident that there is a growing concern over the proliferation of medical interventions that have a low certainty of benefits, while carrying a significant potential for severe medical harm.

It is worrying that Dr Turban does not seem to demonstrate the professional curiosity to rethink his endorsement of medical transition for minors and his dismay at psychotherapy and its role in the care of gender dysphoric individuals of all ages. We are also very concerned by Dr Turban’s activism to suppress the debate on the proper care for gender dysphoria in the public arena. On May 25, 2021, Dr Turban tweeted the following:

“When I spoke with @60Minutesabout their “detransition” story and asked where they found the people to profile – they refused to tell me and became defensive. We still don’t know if they searched for people on TERF forums, and transparency would be appreciated.”

We bring to your attention that TERF (acronym for “trans-exclusionary radical feminist”) is a pejorative term, and that Dr Turban’s use of it to smear and dismiss the experiences of the detransitioners who appeared on 60 Minutes is incredibly hurtful. That a fellow at Stanford would criticise 60 Minutes for having a brief segment featuring detransitioners has many of us very concerned that, should one of his patients experience transition regret and subsequently decide to detransition, Dr Turban would be unfit to help them due to his hostility towards the subject. Therefore we are concerned with how Dr Turban may practice as a clinician, specifically how he may treat a transgender person struggling with regret or a detransitioner seeking to discuss their regret or reverse their transition. His comments on the GenderGP podcast, his flawed use of the USTS, and his hostility towards any discussion of transition regret are all highly problematic and in need of addressing.

We ask Stanford to speak out for more thoughtful approaches because as it stands now, Stanford appears to be silently endorsing Dr Turban’s harmful claims that exploratory psychotherapy is tantamount to conversion therapy and that hormones and surgeries are the only appropriate treatment for people with gender dysphoria. Detransitioners and transition regret exist.

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