Resources | Sex Change Regret https://sexchangeregret.com For those who want to return back Wed, 25 Oct 2023 11:01:00 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://sexchangeregret.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/cropped-SCR_LOGO-512-for-favicon-32x32.png Resources | Sex Change Regret https://sexchangeregret.com 32 32 Biological Integrity Initiative–New Reliable Medical Resource https://sexchangeregret.com/biological-integrity-initiative-new-reliable-medical-resource/ Wed, 25 Oct 2023 11:00:58 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2295 For parents, teens, physicians, schools, and policymakers

A Project of the American College of Pediatricians

www.biologicalintegrity.org offers a wealth of resources for parents, teens, physicians, schools, and policymakers, including FAQs, latest research and data, fact sheets, videos, a map of current legislation, and ways to connect with doctors and therapists. 

ACPeds Executive Director, Dr. Jill Simons, released the following statement with the launch of the Biological Integrity Initiative:

 “We have been receiving increasing demands to provide clarity and support on the gender dysphoria issue and it is our hope that the Biological Integrity Initiative will be a valuable, practical resource for everyone involved. The term biological integrity denotes living in consistency with one’s natural, biological self – the integrated whole of body and mind. Children and adolescents should be loved, and taught to love themselves, as wholly male or female. Children are always born in the right body.”

ACPeds President Dr. Michael Artigues said:

“The massive push we are seeing for children to become the targets of experimental, life-altering drugs and surgeries is ideological in nature, directly opposed to biological reality, antithetical to good medical practice, and deeply disturbing to doctors who have devoted their lives to ethical, compassionate care for their most vulnerable patients – children.” 


Read Press Release

Go to Biological Integrity website

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Soren’s Story: How One Detransitioner Found Peace Outside of Medicalization https://sexchangeregret.com/sorens-story-how-one-detransitioner-found-peace-outside-of-medicalization/ Thu, 15 Jun 2023 10:40:19 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2277 By Kelsey Bolar, May 18, 2023

Soren began identifying as transgender at 11 years old. She started hormone replacement therapy at 17, and by 19, underwent surgery to remove her healthy breasts.

Now 21, Soren looks back on her medical transition with regret. Her traumatic medical complications opened her eyes to the ills of “gender-affirming care,” which she said enabled her to believe hormones and surgery could provide her with the sense of self she craved growing up. Detransitioned and now working to heal her complex emotions through mindfulness, Soren has become a vocal advocate against the “enabling” she sees happening within the gender medical industry.

Read the full article at Independent Women’s Forum

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Explore your ACEs with a therapist https://sexchangeregret.com/explore-your-aces-with-a-therapist/ Sun, 14 May 2023 16:49:53 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2260 Walt Heyer advises on what questions to ask a therapist before considering hormones or therapy.

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Genspect https://sexchangeregret.com/genspect/ Thu, 16 Mar 2023 20:07:52 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2185 A fantastic resource

Here’s a description of who they are from their website:

“Genspect is an international alliance of professionals, trans people, detransitioners, parent groups and others who seek high-quality care for gender-related distress.

Emerging as a leading organisation that offers an alternative to WPATH , Genspect offers a range of education, resources and support for anyone who has been impacted by gender dysphoria.

Uniting 25 different organisations in 23 countries, we don’t just speak for a few: we speak for thousands.”

Go to Genspect.org.

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Gender Exploratory Therapy Association https://sexchangeregret.com/gender-exploratory-therapy-association/ Fri, 16 Dec 2022 20:45:33 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2145 People experiencing gender distress may have had adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) that were never treated or resolved. But it’s hard to find a therapist who will do more than simply “affirm” “transition” and first explore the origins of trauma. This professional association includes therapists who tend to legitimate mental health concerns.

You may find a referral to a therapist at their website. We at sexchangeregret are not recommending the group or its members; we are simply providing another resource to help you find help when you want it. We always recommend that you vet any counselor to see what they believe and how they conduct therapy.


From the GETA website

It has become extremely difficult for clients to find mental health professionals who will facilitate identity exploration while also helping them confront important psychological issues that may be contributing to their distress, including their concerns about gender. 

The Gender Exploratory Therapy Association (GETA) exists because we see a great need arising from the current narrow framing of Gender and Gender Identity in the field of mental health and in the culture more broadly. We believe that: 

Individuals who are exploring gender identity or struggling with their biological sex should have access to therapists who will provide thoughtful care and tend to legitimate mental health concerns, without pushing an ideological or political agenda.

Find Therapists

Articles and Resources

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‘A Medical Atrocity’: Pediatric Surgeon Joins Growing Movement Against Trans Surgeries on Minors https://sexchangeregret.com/a-medical-atrocity-pediatric-surgeon-joins-growing-movement-against-trans-surgeries-on-minors/ Mon, 05 Dec 2022 00:48:26 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2137 by Dan Hart, November 3, 2022, The Washington Stand

This article is reprinted from https://washingtonstand.com/news/a-medical-atrocity-pediatric-surgeon-joins-growing-movement-against-trans-surgeries-on-minors

A prominent pediatric neurosurgeon has publicly spoken out against performing gender transition procedures on minors in a recent Federalist podcast, adding to the growing number of doctors around the country voicing strong objections to the controversial practice as well as a strong majority of voters heading into next week’s midterm elections.

Dr. Michael Egnor, a pediatric neurosurgeon and professor at the Renaissance School of Medicine at Stony Brook University in New York, decried the practice of removing healthy organs from and dispensing cross-sex hormones and puberty blocking drugs to minors who are confused about their sex.

“I’ve come to realize, with the growth of gender-affirming surgery and gender-affirming medical care, that we’re right in the middle of an extraordinary medical atrocity,” he said.

Egnor further reflected on how the medical establishment historically accepted ethically reprehensible behavior for numerous years before eventually backtracking. “Eugenics was taught in practically all medical schools for many years, the Tuskegee study was presented annually at national medical meetings and nothing was said about it for 30 or 40 years,” he observed.

He went on to note that “the American Medical Association has endorsed this stuff. The American Academy of Pediatrics has endorsed this stuff. The American Psychological Association has endorsed this stuff. I really have come to feel over the past year or two that we are in a very dark episode of medical ethics and medical history.”

Still, Egnor encouraged more doctors and the public to speak out about the issue and hopes that more parents will “realize that the medical advice they’re getting regarding these treatments is malpractice” and “basically criminal.”

Egnor joins a growing movement of medical professionals across the political spectrum who have raised concerns about the impact transgender treatments have on minors. In 2021, Dr. Marci Bowers and Dr. Erica Anderson, both heads of prominent transgender special interest groups who are both transgender themselves, voiced their alarm over a rise in rapid-onset gender dysphoria among adolescents and how it may lead to minors making life-altering decisions they will later regret.

Others like Dr. Michael Laidlaw, Quentin Van Meter, Paul W. Hruz, Andre Van Mol, and William J. Malone have publicly made the case against gender transition procedures in recent years, with renowned psychiatrist Dr. Paul McHugh laying the groundwork against the use of transition surgeries in 2015.

Dr. Jennifer Bauwens, the director of the Center for Family Studies at Family Research Council who formerly worked as a clinician providing trauma-focused treatment to children, welcomed the news of Egnor’s stand.

“When I look back even a year ago and I think about my colleagues both in the academic, research, and clinical fields, I hadn’t heard of anyone [speaking out against transgender ideology],” she told The Washington Stand. “I think this is really good news that you have someone, especially from New York state which is very liberal, coming out and basically taking a stand for kids.”

Bauwens went on to assert that there is a significant level of fear within the medical community to not speak out against the accepted views of the medical establishment regarding transgenderism.

“There is suppression on many conservative issues in the academic and clinical fields,” she explained. “I think there is fear of losing your license, losing your ability to practice or to even be hired in an academic institution, but this is a great example of courage. Thank God we have people who are willing to put their careers on the line.”

Bauwens expressed hope that prominent organizations like the American Medical Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics will eventually move away from supporting gender transition procedures for minors.

“I think that when the uprising begins to affect elections, when it begins to affect commerce around the issue, then I think we’ll see the pendulum swing the other way, but I think this is just another crack in the dam,” she told TWS. “If we just watch history, truth eventually wins out. We have to hold on to the hope and the knowledge that truth will prevail. And thank God this is another crack. I do think we are going to see this break, I really do. Look at how much public opinion has changed, even since the pandemic.”

With the midterm elections five days away, a Trafalgar poll taken last week found that almost three quarters of likely voters say they are “unlikely to vote for candidates that support” performing gender transition procedures on minors, including the use of puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones, and carrying out the removal of healthy organs.

“I really do believe the more that public opinion moves in the right direction, the more I think we’re going to see doctors and psychologists with the courage to stand up and come against this,” Bauwens remarked.

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An interview with Dr. Az Hakeem, Transgender Trend Blog https://sexchangeregret.com/an-interview-with-dr-az-hakeem-transgender-trend-blog/ Fri, 02 Dec 2022 15:19:50 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2097 Dr. Hakeem speaks to

  • the lack of follow-up — regretters are not counted
  • high rate of regret he sees in his post-op patients–26%

Who is Dr. Az Hakeem?

Dr Az Hakeem is a consultant psychiatrist, medical psychotherapist and a Fellow of the Royal College of Psychiatrists. He is also a qualified Group Analyst who has used this training to develop and facilitate the unique therapeutic practice of mixed group therapy sessions with gender dysphoric patients both pre- and post-transition.

Who is Transgender Trend?

Transgender Trend conducted the interview. They say “We are an organisation of parents, professionals and academics based in the UK who are concerned about the current trend to diagnose children as transgender”

The entire interview is available at Transgender Trend: https://www.transgendertrend.com/interview-az-hakeem/

The entire interview is great reading. Here’s the relevant part to know today.

Dr. Hakeem says: (emphasis mine)

“As I stated in my publications 26% of my patients are post-operative regretters: this 26% of course does not represent the demographic of Gender Dysphoric patents but was the demographic of the people who had been referred to my service. These people were all non- existent data. No one had followed them up from the gender clinic since they had been given their sex changes. They had been free to live their lives as they had wanted to be without anyone asking later whether they had made a mistake. Many of them were too embarrassed to admit that they regretted their decision having persuaded the Doctors and Psychiatrists and gender clinic to give them what they wanted and felt they needed. Many of them were living in a post-operative role which they now felt to be fraudulent but from which they felt there was no return.

The public are often told that relative regret is extremely low. But this of course is a complete fiction. There are no follow-up studies, no one knows what the regret rate actually is and this low rate results from the lack of any information being collected. The patients I saw did not officially exist in any gender identity clinics’ books.”

Thank you, Dr. Hakeem!

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Chloe Cole Testimony https://sexchangeregret.com/chloe-cole-testimony/ Thu, 03 Nov 2022 11:43:29 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2076

A teenager from California who was born female but identified as male before changing course and returning to her biological gender is speaking out about her experience — and her heartbreaking story.

Chloe Cole testified in September, 2022, in California. She’s only 18 years old and says she didn’t know the word detransition until it happened to her.

Watch the video on Twitter.

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The Testosterone Hangover https://sexchangeregret.com/the-testosterone-hangover/ Mon, 05 Sep 2022 21:46:32 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2036

Common Sense, April 19, 2022 by Suzi Weiss

There is a growing chorus of young people, including Chloe, who had come to regret—deeply—the decisions they had made and the gender-affirming care they had received.

In the middle of this story are teenagers who are largely going unheard by a government and a medical establishment that’s plowing ahead. “I don’t think gender affirming care helps kids like me,” says Chloe. “There should be more regard to alternatives in treating dysphoria, especially when it comes to kids.”

“I thought testosterone would transform me from being short and pudgy to lanky and male, but in a graceful type of way, not muscley,” said Helena Kerschner, 23. Helena is from Cincinnati, and she is one of the country’s most prominent detransitioners, as people who transition genders and then change back are called. She has a >Substack with thousands of subscribers.

Read the full article with stories of Julie, Phoenix, Helena and Chloe at: https://www.commonsense.news/p/the-testosterone-hangover

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“Detransition Diaries” Documentary Coming Fall 2022 https://sexchangeregret.com/detransition-diaries-documentary-coming-fall-2022/ Mon, 05 Sep 2022 21:14:11 +0000 https://sexchangeregret.com/?p=2029

From the Post Millenial, July 28, 2022, by Christine Buttons

Award-winning film producer Jennifer Lahl released a trailer for her new documentary, “The Detransition Diaries.” The documentary features interviews of three young women who transitioned to the opposite sex, only to change course after realizing they had made a huge mistake. This film focuses on the rising number of young girls and women who are deciding to transition.

The women describe the ease of obtaining testosterone from gender clinics. Two had obtained the cross-sex hormone from Planned Parenthood, Helena after a one hour visit, and Cat after only a 30 minute phone call.

Grace describes the immediate regret she felt about having an elective surgery to remove her healthy breasts in order to appear more masculine. “After the surgery I had been hit with these awful feelings of having made a huge mistake… I was looking down at my body and seeing these weeping gashes on my chest and having the most awful feeling.”

The highly anticipated Detransition Diaries is set to be released in the Fall of this year.

 

Read the rest of the article: https://thepostmillennial.com/new-documentary-features-the-stories-of-3-detransitioners

Watch the trailer at YouTube: https://t.co/fc8lmVGsxE

 

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